Dear CP,
The whole episode seems to have been very good for you: at your boyfriend's urging, you followed your dreams and now you are realising them. Wonderful.
However, this happy fact does not translate into a compelling reason to renew the relationship. Normally I advise people that they should ignore “sunk costs” – to put it another way, there is no use crying over spilt milk. In this particular case you should ignore the “sunk benefits”. Forget the fact that it's all worked out well, and focus instead on what this story tells you about the prospects for a happy future together.
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